Most people going through a divorce assume that selling the house means splitting money. That’s not always how it works.
If you bought near the top of the market, refinanced heavily, or the home’s value has pulled back since you purchased, there may be very little left after the mortgage is paid off and the cost of the sale comes out. In some cases, there’s nothing. And in the worst case, you owe more than the home is worth.
A divorce home sale with little or no equity is a different situation than most people are prepared for. Here’s what it actually looks like.
Why the cost to sell matters most in a divorce home sale
Selling a home in Florida isn’t free. Real estate commissions, title insurance, documentary stamp taxes, settlement fees, and property tax prorations add up to somewhere between 8% and 10% of the purchase price in most transactions. On a $350,000 home, that’s $28,000 to $35,000 coming off the top before either spouse sees a dollar.
If the mortgage balance is $325,000 and the home appraises at $345,000, the math works out to very little after costs. Understanding your real net before making any decisions is essential, and Florida seller closing costs are worth reviewing before you assume a sale will leave you with something to split.
According to Florida Realtors, a growing number of homeowners across the state are finding they have less equity than expected as inventory increases and prices have softened in certain markets.
What happens when there’s a shortfall
Here’s the part that surprises people. If the proceeds from a divorce home sale don’t cover the cost of selling, both spouses may need to contribute money at closing instead of receiving it.
That’s the reverse of what most people picture. You’re not splitting what comes in. You’re deciding how to split what goes out.
Every situation like this I’ve worked through raises the same question early: who pays to sell, and how do they split that cost? That has to be worked out between both parties and their attorneys before you list. Waiting until you’re ten days from closing to resolve it is a much harder position to negotiate from.
The options when there’s little or no equity
When there’s some equity but not much, you sell and split what’s left, even if it’s a small amount. That’s not satisfying, but it is straightforward.
When the proceeds don’t cover the cost of selling, both spouses contribute to the shortfall in whatever proportion the marital settlement agreement specifies. That could be 50/50 or a different split depending on the circumstances.
When the home is genuinely underwater (the balance owed exceeds what the home is worth), you may be looking at a short sale, which requires lender approval and adds significant time. A short sale during a divorce requires sustained cooperation between two people who are separating, which makes it logistically demanding even when both parties are trying.
Holding the property and renting it out is an option some couples land on when the market isn’t favorable for selling right now. This requires an ongoing agreement about costs, management, and when to revisit the sale. It’s realistic for some and completely unrealistic for others.
The step-by-step divorce sale process covers how each of these scenarios plays out from a real estate standpoint, including what happens when one spouse isn’t cooperating.
What to resolve before the divorce home sale can close
Both spouses need to sign the listing agreement and the purchase contract in Florida, regardless of how the title is held. That doesn’t change when equity is low or negative. What does change is the need to agree, in writing, on how the shortfall is handled before you go under contract.
If your marital settlement agreement doesn’t address what happens when there are no proceeds and both spouses must contribute at closing, that’s a gap worth closing with your attorney before you list. Surprises at closing in a divorce situation are always costly.
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What if both spouses can’t agree on who covers the shortfall?
That’s when the attorneys need to resolve it, ideally before the home is listed. A marital settlement agreement should include specific language about what happens if there are no proceeds and both spouses must contribute at closing. If that language isn’t there, you’ll need to add it before the transaction can close. Working it out early is far better than hitting this wall with a closing date already on the calendar.
Can a short sale happen during a divorce in Florida?
Yes, but it requires both spouses to sign and lender approval, which typically adds 60 to 90 days or more to the process. A contentious divorce makes a short sale significantly harder because of the sustained cooperation it requires. If you’re considering this route, your divorce attorney and a REALTOR® experienced in distressed sales both need to be involved from the beginning.
What if one spouse won’t cooperate with the sale?
A court can order a sale in Florida when both spouses can’t agree, particularly when the home is creating ongoing financial liability with no equity benefit for either party. Courts treat this practically. Having a REALTOR® who can document listing activity, market data, and the basis for the listing price is often useful in these situations.
Norma Vargas is a REALTOR® and Broker Associate, not a CPA or attorney. For guidance on the legal and financial specifics of your divorce, consult qualified legal and financial professionals.
Going through a divorce in Pasco County, Hillsborough County, or the surrounding area?
When equity is limited, the most important number is the real net — not a Zillow estimate, not what the home was worth two years ago. A current, honest picture of what the home would sell for and what would come out after costs. That’s the number you and your attorneys need to make informed decisions about the property, and it’s what I help divorcing homeowners figure out.
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Also worth reading: – Should you buy out your spouse or sell the house when you divorce? – What happens to the mortgage when you sell your house in a divorce? – Selling the house in a divorce: a step-by-step look at how it works
Norma Vargas | Broker Associate, eXp Realty | Top 1.5% in 2025
I specialize in homes that didn't sell the first time, relocation, and divorce sales across Pasco, Pinellas, Hillsborough, and Hernando counties.
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